@LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml • 2 years agoI'm a beautiful woman, most men would say "yes" to me but I'll never know until I stop being shy, low self-esteem, awkward, aloof. How to get from "Whoa I'm attracted to him," to sealing the deal?message-square80arrow-up164
arrow-up164message-squareI'm a beautiful woman, most men would say "yes" to me but I'll never know until I stop being shy, low self-esteem, awkward, aloof. How to get from "Whoa I'm attracted to him," to sealing the deal?@LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml • 2 years agomessage-square80
minus-square@ashok36@lemmy.worldlinkfedilink10•2 years agoMy wife is very attractive but years of childhood bullying means she has a skewed perception of herself.
minus-square@irmoz@reddthat.comlinkfedilink20•2 years agoMaybe you misunderstood…? I didn’t say attractive people can’t have self-esteem issues. I’m saying people with self-esteem issues generally don’t say “I’m a beautiful person”. They generally say “I’m ugly and unlovable”.
minus-square@ladicius@lemmy.worldlinkfedilink2•2 years agoMy wife, too. Trauma from neglection and other stuff.
My wife is very attractive but years of childhood bullying means she has a skewed perception of herself.
Maybe you misunderstood…? I didn’t say attractive people can’t have self-esteem issues. I’m saying people with self-esteem issues generally don’t say “I’m a beautiful person”. They generally say “I’m ugly and unlovable”.
That does make more sense.
My wife, too. Trauma from neglection and other stuff.