That sounds fun and sexy and relatively harmless but
Realistically I imagine men would not mind that as much as women would. But either way it’s assault and I prefer to stay on the side of social propriety & lawfulness.
Think like if your hugging goodbye just let your hand drop from mid back to low back as you let go of the embrace. Nothing super overt but they’ll notice.
Or if you’re out together and it’s loud and you’re leaning into his personal space to say something in his ear like “did you see that?” Or anything, brace support in his hip, low back. Not an erogenous area, but also like, not his shoulder.
Yeah I just experimented pushed my own button there and you’re right it really is an innocuous horny button.
So sad I’ve lived this long and no one has ever touched me in yummy ways like that. I have so much to learn. How to touch other people in those subtle yummy ways
In my experience, when a woman has touched me there casually, it’s just kit something up in my brain like “🤔 idk that was close to my bum, does she want my butt? She can have my butt 😁”
And then I wanna touch her there too, and then we usually wanna get naked 😊
That sounds fun and sexy and relatively harmless but
Realistically I imagine men would not mind that as much as women would. But either way it’s assault and I prefer to stay on the side of social propriety & lawfulness.
I mean, would you hug this person?
A hug is also assault. So is a handshake.
Interesting. I guess you’re not wrong.
Okay so I’ll do it. I’ll touch the small of his back just where the butt crack starts. Push his button.😆
The way you described it really does sound so harmlessly turn-on.
Think like if your hugging goodbye just let your hand drop from mid back to low back as you let go of the embrace. Nothing super overt but they’ll notice.
Or if you’re out together and it’s loud and you’re leaning into his personal space to say something in his ear like “did you see that?” Or anything, brace support in his hip, low back. Not an erogenous area, but also like, not his shoulder.
Yeah I just experimented pushed my own button there and you’re right it really is an innocuous horny button.
So sad I’ve lived this long and no one has ever touched me in yummy ways like that. I have so much to learn. How to touch other people in those subtle yummy ways
In my experience, when a woman has touched me there casually, it’s just kit something up in my brain like “🤔 idk that was close to my bum, does she want my butt? She can have my butt 😁”
And then I wanna touch her there too, and then we usually wanna get naked 😊
Back is okay depending on context. The person you’re replying to is wrong. Never touch someone’s ass without permission