• @foggy@lemmy.world
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    Touch his butt.

    Gently and not in an ass grabby way.

    And like, the small of his back, not quite his butt crack.

    Casually.

    Humans have a little button there. I swear. Press it gently and it says “hey I want to fuck, if that’s cool?”

    If he’s not interested, hell probably avoid getting his butt near your hands in the future. If he’s interested, he’ll probably end up going down on you or something 🤷‍♂️

    Just touch his butt.

    • @LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.worldOP
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      2 years ago

      That sounds fun and sexy and relatively harmless but

      Realistically I imagine men would not mind that as much as women would. But either way it’s assault and I prefer to stay on the side of social propriety & lawfulness.

        • @LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.worldOP
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          Interesting. I guess you’re not wrong.

          Okay so I’ll do it. I’ll touch the small of his back just where the butt crack starts. Push his button.😆

          The way you described it really does sound so harmlessly turn-on.

          • @STUPIDVIPGUY@lemmy.world
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            22 years ago

            Back is okay depending on context. The person you’re replying to is wrong. Never touch someone’s ass without permission

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            2 years ago

            Think like if your hugging goodbye just let your hand drop from mid back to low back as you let go of the embrace. Nothing super overt but they’ll notice.

            Or if you’re out together and it’s loud and you’re leaning into his personal space to say something in his ear like “did you see that?” Or anything, brace support in his hip, low back. Not an erogenous area, but also like, not his shoulder.

            • @LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.worldOP
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              Yeah I just experimented pushed my own button there and you’re right it really is an innocuous horny button.

              So sad I’ve lived this long and no one has ever touched me in yummy ways like that. I have so much to learn. How to touch other people in those subtle yummy ways

              • @foggy@lemmy.world
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                32 years ago

                In my experience, when a woman has touched me there casually, it’s just kit something up in my brain like “🤔 idk that was close to my bum, does she want my butt? She can have my butt 😁”

                And then I wanna touch her there too, and then we usually wanna get naked 😊

    • @STUPIDVIPGUY@lemmy.world
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      22 years ago

      Fucking ew… I hope nobody ever takes your advice. Sexual harassment is never okay, never touch anybody you’re not close with like that.