• @QueenHawlSera@sh.itjust.works
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    As cool as it is for me to remember “Oh yeah, I have boobs”, I have never wanted to fuck myself and I’d probably mistake myself for a guy at worst or a ham-beast at best

    I have no idea how the hell my boyfriend is attracted to me.

    • RedSnt 👓♂️🖥️
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      11 hours ago

      I have no idea how the hell my boyfriend is attracted to me.

      Authenticity is hot, and I think a pretty good authenticity indicator is coming out of the closet and voluntarily live life in hard mode.

      • @Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world
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        10 hours ago

        Interestingly, after living true to yourself for long enough, the idea of living a lie begins to sound like “hard mode.” This is the case for embracing any so-called “alternative” way of being, whether it be through gender expression, sexuality, neurodivergence, lack of religion, or anything else that’s not “typical” in the predominant culture.

        Yeah, not everyone’s going to like me, but some people really like me. Which makes the retrospective idea of hiding in a closet forever sound much more miserable. To have to suck up your truth and lie to everyone around you (including yourself) sounds so much harder than being genuine.

        For those that need to hear it - your people are out there, and they can’t wait to meet you. ❤️