You usually don’t choose when you have a mental breakdown. The big thing here is that he crashed out and not a single one of his friends cared about his wellbeing enough to try and help. Just got told to go to a doctor.
Comfort him. Let him know that he’s not a leper all of a sudden for having a moment of vulnerability. Listen. Make sure that they understand that they’re heard.
These are pretty basic forms of emotional labor that go a long way in helping folks, and can even save lives at times.
bro is having a rough time, and all his ‘friends’ abandon him and him his problems are wrong . . .
First greentext that’s actually believable
Saddest greentext I ever saw, real and straight
Men don’t talk about shit.
Source - am man
But male loneliness is totes the fault of dem wimmenz
Nobody outside incels say that and they don’t represent men at large.
Oh they talk shit. Maybe you just dont hear it because its about you.
Time and place for everything.
You usually don’t choose when you have a mental breakdown. The big thing here is that he crashed out and not a single one of his friends cared about his wellbeing enough to try and help. Just got told to go to a doctor.
What was he supposed to say?
“Alright bro. I might not be a doctor, but I’ll help you get an erection. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)”
Comfort him. Let him know that he’s not a leper all of a sudden for having a moment of vulnerability. Listen. Make sure that they understand that they’re heard.
These are pretty basic forms of emotional labor that go a long way in helping folks, and can even save lives at times.
This is good advice, thank you for the reality check.
I mean not every situation is one where people are prepared to drop everything and be the emotional support.
Probably the best advice though
“Oh you broke your arm? Don’t worry bro we will support you and set your arm right. No doctor needed.”