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Cake day: June 19th, 2023

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  • Totally agree on how I should get better with small talks. You have given some great tips, I will try to be more open to strangers and apply these. Thanks.

    Do you think I really have to go out of my way to engage with someone that I have found attractive? I think it would be way too clear that I’m forcing a conversation in order to make them my “acquaintances”. Doesn’t that weird people out?

    I was watching her only when she was in my line of sight and was totally depending on chances. But guess that turned out to be stalker-like fixation as people have pointed out here. Is approaching them awkwardly a better thing to do?







  • Thanks for the write-up again.

    Don’t get me wrong but having to report to your accountability partner sounds very daunting to me. I have tried making to-do lists with time blocking in the past and was only half successful with them. I’ll try to implement the accountability method in a way that puts with less pressure on myself. Thanks.


  • Thank you for your very uplifting comment <3

    Honestly I am not sure whether I’m depressed or not. Two people here have assumed it without a doubt, so maybe I am depressed. Depression is board concept and I didn’t think I come under the blanket definition of it and identify myself as depressed. I cannot really afford a therapist right now.




  • Hi, first of all you all have been very nice to me putting up huge comments to help me out. Thank you so much. I’m kinda moved lol.

    Coming to accountability partners, I think I am very shy person and I don’t like sharing self improvement things with anyone irl not because they are bad (I have a sweet family) but I just don’t like to share my goals and then get asked questions about it whether it is good or bad.

    I have an online friend with whom I share a lot of things which I don’t with people irl, and maybe I can convince them to be my accountability partner.

    I have few questions about the goals though. Do they have to huge like the one you shared? Do I have to report back everyday to my partner? How do I go about it.

    Once again thank you for looking out for an random internet stranger <3 I was gonna reply later to you all one by one, but you keeping the timeframe out for me to check on me had be typing all this on the spot. Thanks <3





  • zerozakutome_irl@lemmy.worldme_irl
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    54 months ago

    I’m in the same boat too. Honestly I don’t think this will get better. The grind never stops. I am thinking to consider moving to jobs which are at least interesting to me since I’m going to spend 70%(might be more if math done properly) of my rest of my life working, might as well it be interesting or fun to me. Idk if I can pull it off.