I switched to startpage for this very reason, and it was better for a while! Now its not as good and I’m thinking of going Duck. Idk man, someone needs to reinvent old Google’s search alg.

I’m going to be honest; either I read the comment wrong, or they edited it after the fact. Based on the edit-pencil, it looks like they edited their comment :/

As someone who is doing a massive research project on the Maya peoples right now, that civilization was technologically way ahead of the game! They had toilets with a sewage system, clean aqueducts and water purification measures, and ball sports a thousand years before the colonizers that fucked em up. A THOUSAND YEARS.

Blood too :D

You’re making a sweeping general statement. Polygamy is just Polyamory taken to vows. There is a problem with a lot of the people that practice polygamy in an unethical way, but not polygamy itself.

This. When I was poly my friends and fam were cool with it, but they’re not religious. Every religious person I knew who found out was not too pleased with me.

That wasn’t the ask though? They were asking about polygamy in general…

Depends on the industry. In my industry, Email is king and text is Queen. Unless its a zoom call, it ain’t happening.

If you know of such a penis, one that is perhaps of greater endowment, I would be grateful to study it.

If you have one guy draw the knife over a long surface and distance, the other two can use that one slicing motion to cut the apples any number of times.

ONE STROKE, 99 cuts!

Kel, get off the Lemmy. You have work to do.

[EDIT: I do not know this person, I have no idea who they are. If their name IS Kel, it would be fucking hilarious]

Companies DO irradiate non organic ginger though, sterilizing it, before shipping it to stores.

“This is what happens when you lobotomize half the women, and put the other half on qualudes”, my partner xD

This was by far the most fun thing I’ve read all day. I’m sharing this with my fam lol

True for most people, unfortunately </3

Fine, I’ll do it. Elon Musk is retarded. Not autistic, though if he is on the spectrum that has nothing to do with it.

The guy is fucking slow. He’s the stupidest “smart” person. He may be brilliant at making money, but holy fuck does this guy hang out in the shallow end of the intellectual pool.

I’ve met birds with a better understanding of cause and effect.

Really really hot lmao.

I believe in you!

Yeah I’m one of the 30% of Americans who are too poor to have a doctor xD

I’ll see if I can get a consultation lol

Oof, alright. I guess I better go see a doctor :/

I don’t know what your experience was like, I want to make it clear that how I handled my stuff def wouldn’t work for everyone.

For me, I found that it was hard to find a healthy relationship because I was attracted to and attracted abusers. It took me going open poly and having a lot of casual, relaxed, and actually intimate encounters with people to over-ride my insecurity and lack of self-worth. I was in an open poly relationship with two wonderful people for about 4 years, and had casual fleeting relationships with people throughout.

I learned how to set boundaries. I learned the language I needed to express those boundaries. I learned how to communicate my needs, and how to process experiences in a healthy way. I learned that there are no perfect people; that everyone has damage.

I also started doing “the work” by Dr. Robert Gibson. Its a series of 48 tapes that guide you through a process of introspection, so that you can face the hard stuff and move forward. It can be scary to look inward, and a lot of people avoid doing so and throw themselves into distractions. I did that for years, and I still struggle with it sometimes. If you look for the tapes, I warn you that they are framed in a pseudo-spiritual fashion, if that happens to be triggering.

At some point, I got to a place where I could identify what I wanted in a relationship. What I needed, even. I went out and found it, and am now engaged another four years later.

I genuinely hope you find a way through that works for you. Big hugs <3