First time holding a bubs.
easier than holding a cat.
awww 💖
I don’t mind being an arm rest
Edit: My temu haul is fucking incredible!!!
we need details on the temu haul
When I get home tomorrow from work I’ll post pics. So many awesome clothes!
Cool.
Nearly 3 months into my new role and I still haven’t taken a day off. I have a feeling I may be falling ill when kids have school holidays.
Everyone I know is getting the flu or a cold one after the other. Sounds like it’s your turn coming up
Ran out of plates todayBabies!!!
So there’s 2. One is an absolute dead ringer for the dad. It’s interesting what features they inherit.
Physio mostly fixed it. Yay.
Also temu order is here. Saving it till after I feed the cats.
Sit in bed, uber eats, play with Gibson, unpack temu.
Not too bad an evening
Winning.
Periods suck (tw: menstuation and poop)
My lower abdomen cramping and bubbling like a witch’s cauldron, the heinous poos, the feeling of exhaustion. And I ground my damn teeth last night so half my brain already feels asleep.
This week is poo week.
spoiler
Wait until you get older and it becomes a roulette game. Will it be light, heavy? Will it come today? Probably not and then when you least expected it, it pops in overnight when you’ve got important stuff to do in the morning.
It’s your body’s way of saying EAT CHOCOLATE.
Deal!!!
Wash it down with a glass of wine.
Ol’ girl goes in for her colectomy tm. In for a week +.
Bit worried about the recovery as she weighs bugger all. Definitely not going in in the best of shapes. I’ve locked horns w/ the ol’ boy way too many times but the main thing is food.
Dude can’t cook and that will be a problem.
How the fuck you can go through life and best you can do is a crumpet or overdone steak is beyond me. Hasn’t even tried once.
I understand that generation is a bit different w/ gender roles etc. but following a recipe isn’t exactly hard.
Ffs, drop the ‘it’s a womans job’ shit mentality and learn. Seriously stuck in the 1950’s.
Thanks for reading my rant.
Local council might have assistance available - especially if it’s only for meals. If money’s no object, then hiring someone to come in and cook every couple of days might be a useful way to deal with this.
Light and easy are well tolerated by my older clients.
10/10 rant except for the part where it is a very real problem 😔 the dickhead husband of my favourite aunt is a bit like this - he can cook some very basic meals and a couple of overspiced dishes. But it doesn’t matter how sick his wife is, he cooks when he feels like it (esp if there are guests to show off to), but she is expected to always cook. Really grinds my gears. Your old man might need a bit of a slap in the face about the reality of the situation…
get lots of ready made frozen meals
call Meals on Wheels
then let him fend for himself
of course the worry will be he will expect Ol’ Girl to cook once she’s back home
expect Ol’ Girl to cook
Yep.
The problem is she can only eat soup, which he won’t eat. Expecting her to cook 2 different things in recovery is just not reasonable. She wants to be seen that she’s cooking (as weird as that sounds) but she’s increasingly making poor decisions in the kitchen.
The expectation that she cooks for him has been there for decades and it’s pretty much dangerous now (hot liquids / poor eyesight / weak etc.).
Made a whole bunch in the last few days so she’ll be fine. Just pisses me off there hasn’t been an effort by ol’ boy.
Is it possible that she could stay with someone during her recovery from major surgery and/or palliative care to protect her from this?
This is really not a safe or reasonable expectation - especially if he’s able bodied and simply considers the job beneath him.
I went through similar stuff with my parents and I do remember a dr explaining to me that people that age are unlikely to change their ways (probably after I’d expressed frustration about the situation), which was very hard to get my head around.
Could you stock the house up with microwaveable soups and meal packs (there’s a few companies that deliver). Hospitals also have social workers who can help, although if your dad is in the medical field I suspect he’d be resistant to ‘being told what to do’. Mine definitely was.
Could you enlist one of his mates or a rellie to have a quiet word? Or could your mum spend a bit of recovery time in a rehab place, if that’s an option?
I reckon you’re across all these things but just putting them out there. Sending healing thoughts for your mum and hugs for you - it’s such a difficult situation.
Aren’t those meal kit boxes pretty simple? Helofresh
The kit is fine. The problem here is actually turning the kit into food. Hot liquids, stove elements etc. suck a big one when vision/balance/grip strength is impaired. Remembering my mother when she started her final decline - all the elbows of her cardies were burned through where she’d brushed them too close to the stove element … it amazed us all that she didn’t get seriously burned but that was the point where she had to go into residential care to keep her away from the stove.
They’re not really that simple, they do the planning and provide the ingredients but there is still a lot of actual cooking and chopping involved. They also don’t do single meals, so you either need to work out how to divide it over a couple of nights cooking or have a lot of leftovers.
getting stuff ready for my trip to nz in 2 weeks
and doing general tidying and organising
everyday there is less chaos, more done, a little more skill achieved 🙂
Two weeks ago, an acquaintance who I have a mutual friend with said she’s having a birthday party this weekend and that she hopes I’m free. Gave no details, just said it was happening. I have heard nothing from her since, and she has left the last thing I sent on read. I don’t really want to go anyway. Knowing her, she will probably text me the night of asking if I’m free, even though she is a Type A person and plans things in advance, so I don’t think I’ll follow it up.
Is this the same friend that shows up late all the time?! Another sign of lacking respect for other people’s time.
Nope, this is someone else entirely. I think I need new friends honestly.
So she sent no details on plans of her event?
And you asked for deets and crickets?
You can’t go if you don’t know.
Yeah it was just, “I’m doing birthday drinks on this day, hope you’re free!”
Be direct.
“I would love to come. When and where is it?”
Today at the Op Shop I found an original Les Paul and Mary Ford vinyl. I think it’s mono. 🙂 🎸
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7yH2ioBX_1k
I just checked my record player was on the right speed, surely he can’t really be playing that fast!?
The news feels like foreshadowing in a bad apocalypse movie and I still need to go to work
It felt a bit like this when I was working on my thesis preso yesterday. Does any of this matter? Maybe we will be in WW3 by the end of this week. Whatever…
It reminds me of this meme I saw when COVID started of a Venn diagram of ‘still having to go to work’ and ‘the end of the world’. It feels like we’re in that overlap again
I’m desperately trying to ignore it all.
US politics
Israel has gone for Iran which I saw in passing, and looking now apparently the US might get involved. I don’t really like discussing US politics but kind of wishing we weren’t allied right about now
Yeah, Iran, the protests, the military parade. It sucks to know we’re on the side of the bad guys. It feels like one of those Lenin decade weeks so let’s hope for a similar revolution
Plus ICE, and reporters being shot with rubber bullets.
…I dunno about that part. Didn’t the revolution eventually result in Stalin? :/
Is it too much to ask for a sock to be of normal thickness and to last at least 4 wears without getting holes?
$15 socks are not much better than $2 socks.
I had https://www.aust-woollenmills.com/ and https://brucegoose.com.au/ recommended recently while looking for socks. I went with brucegoose and was disappointed that the stripey socks are significantly tighter than plain of the same size, but otherwise the socks are holding up fine.
bruce goose for normal wears, for cold weathers I gots my tradies socks
I’ve had success with macpac socks. They have them for hiking and also regular thickness ones if you don’t like bulky socks
Work socks! Not great if you have tiny feet like mine, but still better than thin socks.
Gone are the days of getting holes in your socks.
Tonight’s movie is Before Sunset. Goodnight all <3
I’ve got that sleep-in brainfog because I had an early one last night dealing with an obstinate child then woke up a little later than usual this morning. I’m still feeling it
Does that mean that the non-obstinate child is your favourite today?
They take turns. One likes to be consistently difficult but the other likes to pitch in when things look like they could be going smoothly
Tag team!!!
day off today, no painting or hard housework , that’s why I painted my nails sparkly orange last night
Oooh that’s such a pretty colour! Excellent sparkle coverage! What brand?
Colour.
