• CyberCatBytes
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    1402 years ago

    “Using a sex toy on them” When are we going to start referring to sexual assault of men as what it is?

    • @TopRamenBinLaden@sh.itjust.works
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      462 years ago

      I mean, it’s sexual assault obviously, but in this case, “using a sex toy on them” provides a bit more context than just generically labeling it as “sexual assault”. Sexual assault could be many different things.

      The article also goes on to describe that they put the sex toys in the men’s mouth. I think the “used a sex toy on them” is just more descriptive in this situation, because if they used “sexual assault”, people would not be able to decipher what these POS officers actually did.

      I do agree that the media can be terrible about minimizing sexual assault on men, but in this case I think the headline is more descriptive. Also , fuck these racist rapist cops.

      • @ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world
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        572 years ago

        “Raped a man with a dildo”

        Brings the same point across while accentuating what actually happened.

        They raped him. They forcefully penetrated him with a fake penis. That’s rape even according to the current bullshit definition.

        • @TopRamenBinLaden@sh.itjust.works
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          162 years ago

          I totally agree there. They should make it as graphic and specific as possible to really show how fucked up the situation is and show how terrible the perpetrators are, at least in my opinion.

        • CyberCatBytes
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          This & the word “torture” could also mean many things yet they used it as well

        • @rooster_butt@lemm.ee
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          I agree with the article only using the word rape to describe that they were threatened to be anally raped. I think calling everything rape dilutes the meaning of the word. Forcefully stuffing a plastic or silicon object in someone’s mouth doesnt quite fit the word. Cops are absolute vile pieces of shit and I’m annoyed I had to read the article to know what the misleading headline was talking about. The comments weren’t helping either.

      • @GentlemanLoser@ttrpg.network
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        You “use a sex toy” on a partner.

        It’s not a sex toy when you don’t consent; at that point, it’s just being raped with a foreign object.

        • @TopRamenBinLaden@sh.itjust.works
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          I agree. I never said anything different either. I am just saying that this provides more context than sexual assault. If I was in charge of the headline it would probably be “rapist and racist cops torture and rape suspects mouth with sex toy.” But I’m not. As an observer, I felt more informed by the headline than if it just said sexual assault or rape, and you were more informed, too.

          • I reread your comment after I replied and realized I sounded like I was accusing you of otherwise. Not my intention and thanks for the note.

      • @elevenfingerfrk@lemm.ee
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        32 years ago

        He wasn’t raped. He was subjected to enhanced interrogation. Besides, they sprinkled some crack on him so it’s all good.

      • Cethin
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        32 years ago

        “Raped with a sex toy” is more descriptive and accurate and almost the same length (shorter even) as “used a sex toy on them.”

    • @HurlingDurling@lemm.ee
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      422 years ago

      Because just referring to it as sexual assault, might portray that these cops where gay, and we can’t have none of that.

      /s

  • @Harpsist@lemmy.world
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    622 years ago

    “raped” they raped him. Even by americas fucked up definition of rape. Raped him. Why can’t news just say ‘they raped the man’ always with weird innuendos.

    The police are rapists. So easy to type. Almost flows off the keys.

    • @DanglingFury@lemmy.world
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      After reading it I feel the rape part is by far not the worst part of what they did. How long were these fucking criminals getting away with this shit. If he hadn’t shot him (reads like he meant for it to not fire the second time he pulled the trigger with his gun in his mouth) then we wouldn’t even know about this and they would still be out there posing as police officers

    • @hoch@lemmy.world
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      172 years ago

      The article doesn’t even mention that the shooting happened during a forced game of Russian roulette.

      • @SpaceCowboy@lemmy.ca
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        62 years ago

        It kinda does, but it doesn’t make sense:

        After removing a bullet from the chamber of his gun, Elward stuck a gun into Jenkins’ mouth and pulled the trigger. The gun clicked. Then he racked the slide, only this time, the gun fired a bullet

        Usually Russian Roulette involves removing all of the bullets except one. This shitbag removed just one bullet. But most importantly, Russian Roulette is done with a revolver and the mention of a slide indicates it wasn’t a revolver.

        So… I don’t know what happened here. Did this Elward shithead say he was going to do a Russian Roulette thing but didn’t understand how any of that works?

    • aeternum
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      92 years ago

      jfc. I hope they go to prison for the maximum. That shit was hard to read.

      • RickRussell_CA
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        72 years ago

        Unfortunately, I suspect there is no way they agreed to a guilty plea without an offer on the table.

        • aeternum
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          unfortunately, i think you’re right. They deserve nothing less than the maximum

  • @robocall@lemmy.world
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    452 years ago

    I don’t tend to make generalizations about a whole department but I seriously question if Rankin county is better off without a sheriff’s department entirely.

    • TunaCowboy
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      322 years ago

      “what’s coming to them in prison” is just another indictment of our broken society.

    • @n2burns@lemmy.ca
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      222 years ago

      Yes, it’s wrong. It’s understandable to want retribution, but it doesn’t help improve the situation. We need to be better than that, even when our gut reaction is, “to hope these goon fucks get what’s coming to them in prison?”

    • @ikidd@lemmy.world
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      122 years ago

      “Prison was fine, I didn’t mind prison. Except for the anal rape part. Yah, that part I didn’t enjoy much, that anal rape thing.”

      • Norm MacDonald
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      82 years ago

      considering the prison system creates more crime, yes it’s wrong

  • @hairinmybellybutt@lemmy.world
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    192 years ago

    on one hand, I wish I wouldn’t have to read those headlines because it depresses me

    on the other hands, there’s no point in muting that information, because people should know those things and should be angry

    I thought “we should read good news”, and then /r/upliftingnews appeared and it was just a rose-colored glasses thing.

    we actually need to hear bad news to make people react.

    • Cethin
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      62 years ago

      I want to hear good news when we actually fix things. I don’t want to ignore bad news or to have news mischaracterized as good.

  • @MeetInPotatoes@lemmy.ml
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    172 years ago

    The sad reality of the name of the newspaper being so true. This is Mississippi today. Not 400 years ago, or 60…today.

  • @Knoxvomica@lemmy.ca
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    162 years ago

    I don’t often advocate for the death penalty, but fuck these pigs. They don’t deserve to live. That or solitary life imprisonment.

  • stopthatgirl7
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    122 years ago

    Jesus Christ on a cracker. I thought the headline was bad, and the article made it so much worse. I don’t even have words.