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The Picard Maneuver to People Twitter@sh.itjust.works • 4 months ago

Guy friends' advice

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The Picard Maneuver to People Twitter@sh.itjust.works • 4 months ago
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  • @HalfSalesman@lemm.ee
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    4 months ago

    Its terrible advice. Crying is good for you.

    • @Donkter@lemmy.world
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      27•4 months ago

      Crying is good for you. Lighthearted encouragement and camaraderie is also good for you.

    • @LaLuzDelSol@lemmy.world
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      19•4 months ago

      Cry all day then for maximum health?

      • @EightLeggedFreak@lemmy.world
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        6•4 months ago

        I don’t feel healthy :'(

        • @Entropywins@lemmy.world
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          5•4 months ago

          Cry harder?

      • @Sparrow_Joint@lemm.ee
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        5•4 months ago

        Save your tears today

        You might need them tomorrow

        Mine ran out too soon

    • @Maggoty@lemmy.world
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      11•4 months ago

      Eh, it depends on the situation. There is definitely a time and place for locking your emotions down. Most people will never need it though.

      • @HalfSalesman@lemm.ee
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        1•4 months ago

        Maybe for the sake of maintaining social status, sure, but that’s a sacrifice. Its just straight up physically unhealthy to stifle crying however.

        • @Maggoty@lemmy.world
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          Oh no I mean like physical requirements. Like on the side of a mountain you’re climbing.

    • @taxiiiii@lemmy.world
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      1•4 months ago

      It’s terrible advice if you struggle with it.

      I however cry quite easily. In hindsight all this “don’t suppress your feelings” advice honestly always felt more directed at boys and men.

      Learning to turn off and distract yourself from bad feelings is also a skill. I think quite a few people - especially women - struggle with that, me included.

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