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The Picard Maneuver to People Twitter@sh.itjust.works • 4 months ago

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The Picard Maneuver to People Twitter@sh.itjust.works • 4 months ago
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  • @Spendrill@lemm.ee
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    4 months ago

    What does ‘lock in’ mean in this situation?

    Yours faithfully,

    a confused Brit.

    • The Picard ManeuverOP
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      Gen Z slang for saying “get it together and focus”

      • @Spendrill@lemm.ee
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        Ah ok, thanks.

        Where I’m from a lock in is a pub illegally serving drinkers after time by locking the doors.

        • @stringere@sh.itjust.works
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          5•4 months ago

          Lock ins were all night parties for kids when I was growing up. Parents in 80s USA, wow.

          • SharkAttak
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            4•4 months ago

            Could be both…?

            • @stringere@sh.itjust.works
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              Undoubtedly, apologies if it was understood that I spoke as the sole arbiter of lock ins.

          • @mx_smith@lemmy.world
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            2•4 months ago

            Usually in churches right?

            • @nanoswarm9k@lemmus.org
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              2•4 months ago

              libraries sometimes too. basically an overnight in a non-residential space?

              • @stringere@sh.itjust.works
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                3•4 months ago

                My parents went to them at skating rinks where they would take their skates off and dance on the rink. They called them sock hops.

      • @Empricorn@feddit.nl
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        Ok… So maybe this is a dumb question, but is it helpful to hear that when you’re having a hard time?

        • @braxy29@lemmy.world
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          26•4 months ago

          i think it could be, depending upon circumstances. likewise, i think it could also be actively harmful (depending upon circumstances).

          • @sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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            18•4 months ago

            And personality type.

          • @dickalan@lemmy.world
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            2•4 months ago

            God you guys sure like to make assumptions. This place is already shaping up to be like Reddit🤣🤣🤣🤣

            • @starman2112@sh.itjust.works
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              “It depends on your circumstances”

              What assumptions???

            • @dumblederp@aussie.zone
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              Is that not how discussions work?

              • @dickalan@lemmy.world
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                Discuss discussions, not straight up speculation

        • @ggtdbz@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          It depends.

          It could mean just try to put bad thoughts aside until the workday/workweek ends and really try to get intentional tunnel vision. In a corporate world of hell capitalism, I get it. Not a great sign that we have slang for it, but I get it.

          It could also mean emotionally disconnect for the next while and just do what’s mechanically important (work, often gym). This one’s worse and it’s what you’re thinking of.

          It’s been used a fair bit around me.

    • Sundray
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      53•4 months ago

      Steady on.

      • @Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world
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        12•4 months ago

        Buck up. Suck it up. Maintain an even strain. I get it.

      • @Spendrill@lemm.ee
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        10•4 months ago

        👍

    • @papalonian@lemmy.world
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      Traditionally, to be “locked in” on something would mean to be locked in on your target, goal, etc.

      Telling someone to lock in or “lock it in” is kind of like a nice way of saying “get your shit together” or “focus up”. I hear it in sports/ gaming lingo.

      • Krik
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        So it’s something like ‘man up’. Ok, I can understand that.

        • @Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          15•4 months ago

          There are negative connotations around “man up”

          “Lock in” it just a fancy way to say, focus. But with a “we’ve got this” vibe to it.

      • @ulterno@programming.dev
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        6•4 months ago

        gaming lingo

        I see. So just press Tab, right?

        • @Venator@lemmy.nz
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          Just press F10

          • @stringere@sh.itjust.works
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            3•4 months ago

            ALT-F4 fixes the error

            • @Venator@lemmy.nz
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              1•4 months ago

              If you’re using a web browser press ctrl+w

      • @Maggoty@lemmy.world
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        I do believe if someone told me to “lock in” while I was on a video game I would fall over laughing.

        • @papalonian@lemmy.world
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          I mean that’s the point kind of haha. I know some people use the lingo unironically, but if I tell my homies I’m bout to lock in, clutch up, and secure the dub, I don’t want them to take me seriously, lmao.

          When my buddies are playing, and we’re being loud, telling jokes, and generally goofing around instead of paying attention, one of the common things we’ll jokingly say when the laughter dies down is “alright alright alright, focus up guys, let’s focus up”.

          • @Maggoty@lemmy.world
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            Oh good. I’ve met people in games who take them way too seriously.

    • @shalafi@lemmy.world
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      Stiff upper lip old chap!

      God, it’s like none of you speak Brit.

    • @Maggoty@lemmy.world
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      Cowboy up.

      Get your boot straps out the dirt.

      Cryers don’t get healthcare.

      (Okay I’m running out of Americanisms)

      It’s telling someone to stop being emotional.

      • @AdrianTheFrog@lemmy.world
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        13•4 months ago

        I’d say it’s telling someone to focus on a task at hand

        • @Maggoty@lemmy.world
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          Yeah but if that task isn’t something that someone’s life depends on turn it’s a pretty dick move.

          • @AdrianTheFrog@lemmy.world
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            2•4 months ago

            Like “I need to lock in and finish this essay” sort of thing

            • @Maggoty@lemmy.world
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              1•4 months ago

              You can ask for an extension.

              • @AdrianTheFrog@lemmy.world
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                Is there context here that I’m missing? I’m confused

                • @Maggoty@lemmy.world
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                  Yeah an essay isn’t an emergency. Telling someone they have to stop crying is physically and mentally harmful. So doing so without some on going reason they absolutely have to stop is a dick move.

    • @Zomg@lemmy.world
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      I see it as Stay Focused

    • JokeDeity
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      It’s akin to “get over it” in this context.

      • @Amanduh@lemm.ee
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        Removed by mod

        • JokeDeity
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          IMO same thing, it’s all just dismissing the other person’s feelings and thoughts.

          • @Amanduh@lemm.ee
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            Removed by mod

            • JokeDeity
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              No, how is it not? Even reading it verbatim word for word. YOU got this, where is the we in that? And again, it’s just completely dismissive, ignores any and all problems with 3 meaningless words.

              • @Amanduh@lemm.ee
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                1•4 months ago

                On a scale of 1 to 10 how autistic would you say you are?

      • @Spendrill@lemm.ee
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        1•4 months ago

        Thank you.

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