• BarrierWithAshes
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    652 years ago

    One thing that came as a culture shock for me is that I’m used to driving like 4 hours to see relatives. And this is usually several times a year. Then I heard from some Britons that they have rarely visit their relatives who are only like a hour drive away. Really messed me up the first time.

    • The Picard ManeuverOPM
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      182 years ago

      I’ve heard similar things. Like, I’ve had work commutes that are an hour long before. (Not that that’s healthy or ideal, but it’s far from rare)

      • @ByteWizard@lemm.ee
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        222 years ago

        And they say we should all just switch to electric bikes like in the Netherlands. I tried showing them a comparison of the states using a map but turns out “I am just being difficult”

        • AggressivelyPassive
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          192 years ago

          The “map” is not the problem, you just completely fucked up your city planning. Size of a country has zero impact on your daily commute.

          • @ByteWizard@lemm.ee
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            Size of a country has zero impact on your daily commute.

            Lol Ok. Guess everyone has to crowd together in comparatively tiny little cities. All this usable land outside the cities is now uninhabitable. Genius.

            Let me guess, we will own nothing and be happy, right? Oh and don’t forget about eating bugs!! Yum yum!

            Go slink back to hexbear.

              • @ByteWizard@lemm.ee
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                22 years ago

                Here I’ll speak slowly

                We have a big country. Big spaces mean longer commute. City design can't change physics of space-time.

                • AggressivelyPassive
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                  192 years ago

                  That’s not how cities work. That’s just how America decided to approach that problem.

                  To spell it out for you: your commute is always in your local area. The size of your country is not relevant to your local area. What is relevant, is density. Density though, has nothing to do with the size of your country. Unfortunately, you are about twice as dense as Hong Kong.

                  • Nepenthe
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                    42 years ago

                    Your local area is trees now. Two and a half hours of trees. And a hideous tower thing painted to look like a marlboro cigarette, that people use as a landmark.

                    Not that I disagree the other commenter kind of…went off the deep end at the end, there. But if your suggestion is not that we take everyone in most of the middle states and shove 'em all together into what would probably come to 3-4 mid-sized American cities — so I guess a medium European one, an event that will absolutely never happen anyway — then your remaining solution to the city density/commute thing must be…to…increase the density?

                    Is that what you guys are asking? The only problem with America is that there aren’t enough Americans? Especially in Wisconsin?

                  • @Mango@lemmy.world
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                    12 years ago

                    We don’t all live in cities genius. Cities are shit. Outside of cities, public transportation and bikes are shit.

      • I mean, this sounds just like a big city thing, not an American thing. I live in Paris and hour long commutes are common here too.

        As European cities are close together though, this can lead to situations where travelling between cities is not what takes the most time. I once (about a year ago) travelled a Paris-London which took me about 5 hours from start to finish - the Eurostar takes only just over 2 hours. The rest was travelling from my home to Gare du Nord, from St. Pancras to my destination, and border checks before boarding at Gare du Nord (thank Brexit for that one).

    • AFK BRB Chocolate
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      132 years ago

      I get that from other people in the US sometimes, too. I live in Los Angeles county, and when people come from other places to visit they often think they can see way more things in one day than is reasonably feasible. Santa Barbara and San Diego are like 200 miles apart and it’s going to take 5 or 6 hours from one to the other. The Hollywood sign and Disneyland are 30+ miles apart and a good hour separate.

      • Riskable
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        62 years ago

        I live in Jacksonville, FL and people overseas often think I’m right next door to Miami because it’s also in Florida. It’s a six hour drive!

      • EtherealMoon
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        32 years ago

        I grew up in SoCal and this is why I have barely ever been anywhere. It’s dense enough around here.

    • I would make the point (not necessarily for an hour’s drive) that the roads are often more tiring to drive on in the UK – that is, they’re not as flat, wide or straight as freeways often are, so require more concentration. Driving for an hour along Welsh country lanes doesn’t feel the same as hitting the freeway for an hour. Just my two cents/tuppence

      • BarrierWithAshes
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        12 years ago

        Yeah, I can understand that. My cars got cruise control. Id doubt thatd be very effective in the UK less your in some scenic area like the Cotswolds.

    • Tigbitties
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      72 years ago

      Canadian here. I drive 4 times a year to my family cottage 8 hours away.

      • @S_204@lemmy.world
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        22 years ago

        I’m in Winnipeg. A friend of mine has a family cottage 2 hours north of thunder Bay.

        It makes no sense to me why they continue to torture themselves by keeping this property.

        Why don’t you sell your cottage and buy something closer?

        • Tigbitties
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          42 years ago

          History. My grandfather bought it 70 years ago. It’s an old school house… That he actually went to school in. He died it too.

          Besides that, we still have family and generations of friends we still know and love in nearby.

          It’s located on an Unesco site on the bay de chaleur. It’s not worth a lot either. Im pretty sure I’d be trading down if I bought another place. I doubt I’d find a spot that beautiful.

          Anyway, the drive is stunning and it doesn’t bother me.

    • @CeeBee@lemmy.world
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      62 years ago

      Same experience when my wife and I went to Scotland to visit friends. We were in Glasgow and wanted to check out Edinburgh, less than an hour bus ride, for the day. They told us that we were crazy and that’s a whole weekend trip.

      We laughed pretty hard. A full hour drive is only half of a daily work commute in Toronto, on a good day.

    • @Worx@lemmynsfw.com
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      32 years ago

      It turns out it’s not the distance to our family that’s important, we just don’t fucking like them

      • BarrierWithAshes
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        12 years ago

        Then you obviously dont apply to my analogy then. Knew someone would comment that eventually.

    • @Airazz@lemmy.world
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      22 years ago

      I’ve got four different countries, with different languages and currencies, within a four hour drive from my house. I only drive if the road trip is the goal.