• @Geometrinen_Gepardi@sopuli.xyz
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    8 days ago

    Once in Malaysia I met a guy who was in his early twenties. He looked perfectly ordinary from a western perspective, but it turned out he had three wives. Different cultures!

    • @404@lemmy.zip
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      188 days ago

      What exactly are you saying here? Getting

      “bUt yOu LoOk nORmaL hOW CaN yOU be gAy”

      vibes from this.

      • @Monument@lemmy.sdf.org
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        118 days ago

        I knew a guy who - about 20 years ago, slept with both women in a lesbian relationship. As in - they cheated on each other with him. And somehow they formed a workable triad out of that that was pretty darn stable for like 10 years. Until he got caught cheating on them (after months, apparently) with someone in their social group - a younger, monogamous, ‘party girl’-type woman.
        He didn’t want to break up with anyone, and all of them refused to ‘give up’ so now (10 years after cheating) he has two relationships - the triad, the “new” one, two houses, and now a kid with each woman.

        He looks and acts sort of like a grown up version of Max from A Goofy Movie (Goofy’s son), is still ‘fixing’ the muscle car he bought in his college years, and has a 99% complete collection of every edition of Playboy magazine.

        But to answer your question of what a guy with 3 (or more) wives should look like? Bill Paxton, circa 2011.

        • @ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world
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          28 days ago

          My sister-in-law has two moms and a dad, all living together in a stable relationship for more than 40 years. The kids are a Brady Bunch-style grouping as well.