It’s funny, your head went to relationship – my mind went straight to a Work scenario where you’re being told one thing by your boss or whoever but someone already told you the truth.
Not sure I follow this line of thought. I honestly didn’t think of anything nefarious - just someone who was privy to a situation or piece of information that they hadn’t been instructed to keep quiet. I’ve had that exact thing happen to me so many times where someone mentioned something that happened conversationally and then the official line was something different. No reason to make waves or bring it up - just initiates some curiosity/wariness.
I totally see it as an innocent thing myself, but I also know people who live in those type of toxic relationships (who are toxic themselves and I try not to hang around them too much).
I think you make some toxic jumps from A to E instead of the optional B, C, or D if your mind not only goes to a relationship, but instantly jumps to both parties being toxic.
If this is you, you’re a toxic person in a relationship with a toxic person.
It’s funny, your head went to relationship – my mind went straight to a Work scenario where you’re being told one thing by your boss or whoever but someone already told you the truth.
That’s what I thought too
Kind of makes them seem a bit toxic ironically
Different kind of toxic tbh
Not sure I follow this line of thought. I honestly didn’t think of anything nefarious - just someone who was privy to a situation or piece of information that they hadn’t been instructed to keep quiet. I’ve had that exact thing happen to me so many times where someone mentioned something that happened conversationally and then the official line was something different. No reason to make waves or bring it up - just initiates some curiosity/wariness.
I get that. It could be innocent too.
Yah, I think we’re on the same page. We’re all a product of our experiences and recent context probably informs how we all interpret posts like this.
I totally see it as an innocent thing myself, but I also know people who live in those type of toxic relationships (who are toxic themselves and I try not to hang around them too much).
I think you make some toxic jumps from A to E instead of the optional B, C, or D if your mind not only goes to a relationship, but instantly jumps to both parties being toxic.