• @krashmo@lemmy.world
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    520 days ago

    Only if your conception of masculinity is stupid. There are plenty of manly role models out there, we’ve just largely decided not to pay them much attention.

    • Captain Aggravated
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      520 days ago

      The manliest man I can think of: Norm Abram. His achievements:

      • Made a living wearing flannel shirts

      • Excellent beard

      • Distinguished service award from the American Academy of Ophthalmology

      • Built a sailboat

      • said “Not roman orgy, roman ogee” on national television and got away with it

    • Fluffy Kitty Cat
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      320 days ago

      If you step out of line with what is considered acceptable (and The most toxic insecure men incent things to be afraid of out of nowhere) you get harshly punished. Learned this the hard way growing up trans

        • Fluffy Kitty Cat
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          320 days ago

          In my experience, transfemme although trans men have had interesting things to say on the topic

          • Avid Amoeba
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            120 days ago

            I guess you got off the hamster wheel at some point. I imagine trans men being faced with this stuff… That’s not to say there’s no toxic stuff on the femme side of things.

            • Fluffy Kitty Cat
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              420 days ago

              Oh yeah we got problems on the girl’s side bit at least women aren’t afraid soybeans is gonna take away their masculinity