• @toy_boat_toy_boat@lemmy.world
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      12 months ago

      i think we’re just on the wrong page tonight. i feel like i had too much to drink and now i’m picking a fight with a friend’s friend. can we pick this up another time? i’m not a bad person, and i don’t think you’re one, either.

      • @quetzaldilla@lemmy.world
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        132 months ago

        Maybe you ain’t a bad person, but you certainly not acting like a good one.

        In the future, please choose to be kind and curious, not judgemental.

          • @quetzaldilla@lemmy.world
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            82 months ago

            A’ight. I believe in you, my dude.

            Please don’t drink so much anymore because it’s not healthy, my guy.

            Gotta take care of that bod.

              • @quetzaldilla@lemmy.world
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                52 months ago

                I was in a relationship with one for nine years. It’s hard to watch someone self-destruct because they feel so hopeless.

                He’s been sober now for two years, and he finally seems happy. He got back into making art and his old hobbies.

                  • @Mjpasta710@midwest.social
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                    72 months ago

                    You confessed to drinking too much.

                    It was not a weekend night, anywhere in the world.

                    Binge drinking is unsafe by itself, all alcohol is carcinogenic.

                    I don’t personally think they had to peep your history, to realize it’s an issue.

                  • @quetzaldilla@lemmy.world
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                    32 months ago

                    I didn’t peep, you just said you had too much to drink.

                    And yes, hope is what you really need right now. You can get sober and you can be happy again, you just have to connect with a support group that understands what you are going through.

                    My ex rejected AA for the longest time because we are both atheists, but he found the comraderie and support there he needed to finally sober up.